Our Commitment to Safety & Propriety
The New Victorian Society is dedicated to fostering genuine, respectful connections through the timeless art of letter writing. We maintain the highest standards of propriety and decorum, ensuring a safe and elegant environment for all members of our community.
Victorian Values
- •Courtesy and respect in all correspondence
- •Thoughtful, meaningful communication
- •Gradual, appropriate revelation of identity
- •Protection of privacy and personal boundaries
Community Standards
- •Authentic self-representation
- •Age-appropriate interactions (18+ only)
- •No harassment or unwanted advances
- •Respect for diverse backgrounds and beliefs
Prohibited Content & Behavior
Inappropriate Content:
- • Vulgarity, profanity, or explicit material
- • Harassment, threats, or intimidation
- • Hate speech or discrimination
- • Spam or commercial solicitation
- • Modern references that break immersion
Unacceptable Behavior:
- • Impersonation or false identity
- • Sharing private information without consent
- • Circumventing privacy protections
- • Manipulative or predatory behavior
- • Violation of local laws or regulations
Safety Features
Content Screening
Automated screening to maintain appropriate discourse
Progressive Reveal
Control when and how your identity is shared
Report & Block
Tools to report violations and block unwanted contact
How to Report Violations
In Conversations
Click the shield icon in any conversation and select "Report Conversation"
On Profiles
Use the report option on any profile that violates our guidelines
Direct Support
Contact our moderation team directly at safety@newvictoriansociety.com
Safety Tips for Members
While Corresponding:
- Never share personal contact information early
- Trust your instincts about uncomfortable situations
- Use the progressive reveal system as intended
- Report any suspicious or inappropriate behavior
Meeting in Person:
- Meet in public places for initial encounters
- Inform a friend of your plans and location
- Arrange your own transportation
- Take time to build trust before private meetings
Enforcement & Consequences
Violations of our community guidelines are taken seriously and may result in:
Questions or Concerns?
Our moderation team is here to help ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for all members.